Hello Chelle, in regards to the holiday traditions, I’m still working it out. I’ve been married 24 years, and we’re still adapting and changing things. The thing is, when we first married and no one had kids yet – we kept things simple. Now that children have arrived, parents are more into trying to “be true to their religion and/or beliefs”. My brother-in-law and his family are Jewish, my family is Catholic, and my sister-in-law celebrates Kwanzaa. Yep, it’s fun. Happy Holidays!